part two
In the last Blog on Collateral Grace, the scribes were still trying to mess with Jesus. Sometime later, and still trying to trip up the Savior, one of those pesky scribes came along and asked the Lord, “Which is the first commandment of all?” And Jesus answered him, “The first of all the commandments is, Hear, O Israel; The Lord our God is one Lord. And thou shalt love the Lord thy God with all thy heart, and with all thy soul, and with all thy mind, and with all thy strength: this is the first commandment. And the second is like the first, Thou shalt love thy neighbor as thyself. There is none other commandment greater than these.” (Mark 12:28-31 KJV)
All too often, we miss the words of the second to the last sentence, “And the second is like the first,” Thou shalt love thy neighbor as thyself.”
Love. Thy. Neighbor. As. Thyself. Think about those 5 words. Do YOU do this? Do you love yourself?
How often do you say to yourself, “I’m so dumb?” or “I’ll never be able to play tennis?” or “I’ll never read the whole Bible?” or “There’s no way I’ll pass the final?” or “Me?, get an A in math?” or I’m just stupid?”
Please, LISTEN to yourself and then go back and read those five words,
If you say those ‘bad/negative’ things to your best friend or husband or wife, how does that make them feel? And how long will that friend be your friend? If you love your friend as you love yourself, you’re doing a LOUSY job of loving YOU and your FRIEND.
So, let’s go back to loving yourself. No, I’m not suggesting selfishness, egotism, or even narcissism. Be kind to yourself, and then you will be kind to your friend.
If God made us in His image, and He did, then He gave us all we need to love Him, and ourselves, thereby loving those friends. Try it!